Archive for March 1st, 2008

01
Mar
08

Small but Horrible: “Go, Grow, Glo!”

Despite the multiple accusations of corruption against Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo and her family members, most controversial of which is concerning the on-going exposition on the National Broadband Network (NBN), this detrimental eensy-weensy has managed to stand tall (at least the tallest she could) and proud with her counter-corruption blah-blah campaigns. Nah!

Seems obviously to me, as if this is a desperate move by Arroyo to have an anti-corruption image that she hopes would make people forget the controversies hounding her regime. But she keeps forgetting Filipinos are not dumb.

To show her sincerity in fighting corruption, why doesn’t she open herself and her family members to a full investigation on all corruption allegations against them. What is there to hide? And of course, also to investigate if she is even the legitimate president of this country.

01
Mar
08

Give it a Shot!

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Facing the real Issue

Of all the viruses out there waiting to attack us, perhaps none could strike more fear among us, women, especially, than those that infect our most private areas – the vulnerable, physical parts so inherent to our idea of femininity. Perhaps, no one knows how many sleepless nights can be laid by the doorstep of a woman diagnosed of cervical cancer, the second leading cancer killer.

Now, a vaccine has been made available to help us prevent this killer cancer caused almost exclusively by the sexually transmitted virus called the human papillomavirus (HPV). This new approach to tackling cancer is exciting because it prevents the disease from developing instead of destroying it through chemotherapy or radiation treatments after it is detected. But in the midst of all these exhilaration surrounding our medical breakthrough, some uncomfortable issues are being raised.

Misconceptions about the disease

It’s easy to understand why a lot of people hold so many confusions about HPV. After all, public awareness of the virus is still extremely low at this point. As a matter of fact, according to some Obstetricians most HPV infected patients never even heard of HPV until they were diagnosed.

Those struggling with this troubling condition or strange new diagnosis rarely discuss it with others, since they feel it would seem unlikely that others would understand. Not knowing these ‘others’—likewise feel constrained to keep silent about their HPV, thinking that we wouldn’t understand.

Unlike Breast Cancer, Cervical Cancer is not hereditary. And unlike contagious diseases like polio, chickenpox or tuberculosis, cervical cancer and genital warts are mainly a result of personal, lifestyle decisions. It may start early on in life (pre-adolescent stage), and progresses without us knowing; until it has reached its later stage- the stage when it may already be too late to be prevented or even treated. According to an Obstetrician, in its early stages, cancer of the cervix does not produce any symptoms. Later stages cause vaginal bleeding (often painless), vaginal discharge, pain in the pelvic area and pain during intercourse.

We are in the information technology era and it is just ridiculous to allow ourselves fall victim of our own ignorance. Since early recognition is one of the two keys to the prevention of cervical cancer (the other key is to get vaccinated), we, women should make screening part of our health protocol. An OB-Gynecologist says that a woman should go for her first test at least three years after she begins having sex or by age 18 (whichever comes first). A yearly pap smear is recommended for at least three years, and if you’ve had three “normal” ones, that is, no problems were found, you can start going for a pap smear at least every three years. An Ob-Gyne may recommend going for a test more often if you have one or more of the predisposing factors: you have given birth more than once, you started having sex early, you have had multiple sex partners, or your partner has had many sexual partner, you have used birth control pills for 5 or more years, you smoke, and you have genital warts. If a woman has external genital warts, whether it seems malignant or benign, she should get medical attention at once.

Needless to say, I advise all women (and men) to get up on your feet and become vigilant about this health issue. There is no longer an excuse for us to be caught off-guard of an easily preventable disease like cervical cancer. The least you could do is tell your loved ones about this.

Price Obstacles

The estimated cost of the vaccine ranging from P15,300.00 to 21,000.00, is said to have become prohibitive for the middle-income group. Let me reiterate, it is CERVICAL CANCER we are talking about here, and the breakthough vaccine Gardasil being the first and only vaccine worldwide to prevent cancer as well as other diseases such as vaginal and vulvar cancers and genital warts caused by HPV

The vaccine is administered as a series of three injections intramuscularly over six months. One shot starts from (an average of) Php6,000.00. That means complete dosage comes at a minimum price of Php18,000.00 (Let us not forget the doctor’s consultation and administration fees which may vary). But one important point raised by OB-Gynecologist- Dr. Efren Domingo is that “the vaccine is still less costly than the average Php500,000.00 total cost of cervical cancer treatment.” It’s a matter of choice. No member of any family can put a price on emotional burden (of seeing someone in pain).

Promiscuity Issue

I have come across one vigorous argument between two mothers on whether or not to give their 9 year old daughters our latest breakthrough vaccine- Gardasil. The issue of their debate, however, boils down to the risk of “opening the younger generations’ doors to promiscuity.”

In a perfect world, children would all wait until after marriage and then make decision on whether or not to get pregnant. It would be ideal if people had one sexual partner for their entire lives, the world however, does not function on such a nice and ideal situation. This is not a perfect world. People are bound to obey all traffic laws yet they do not, and as such, we have accidents. People have sex; it is as much a part of people’s existence as breathing and eating. Teaching your children to wait for marriage is great, anyone would encourage that! But not allowing your children to be protected because it would be an admission that they are going to make their own decisions in life would be absolutely absurd.

The vaccine is not a birth control, nor is it a free pass to a promiscuous lifestyle (be reminded that there are still a lot of STDs one can catch from living a promiscuous life); the vaccine will protect your daughter from one of the cruelest killers of all cancers. You, as parents, are held responsible to protect your daughter from such dreadful disease, just as you are responsible to make your children wear seat belts in cars, and helmets on their bikes. Nobody would want their children to crash their bikes because they went too fast. And letting them hit their heads because they need to learn a lesson—is not what makes parents great.

The choice should be left up to you, parents. As you weigh the pros and cons of deciding about the shot, in my earnest opinion there should be only one main factor to consider—that it will prevent your little girls from getting cervical cancer, and your little boys as well from any possible complication of HPV. As responsible parents, you must let your children- daughters especially, to become aware of the entire picture of getting the HPV infection that leads to cervical cancer (what it is, how it is acquired, and what are its consequences), whether through casual conversation, community education, their own lifestyles, mother-daughter program, books, chastity talks, whatever it takes. And most importantly… have them vaccinated!

I am all for the vaccine and hope that all who make the decision to have it or not, weigh the options and not the kind of thinking- that the vaccine may promote early adolescent sex- that is just absurd. And, if again asked whether price really is an issue? It’s all a matter of prioritization. More important is for us to recognize the entire picture of HPV and Cervical Cancer. Protect your future! Now is the time. Many will seize the day many will live to the fullest. Why not you or your loved ones? Give the vaccine a shot.

01
Mar
08

WITHOUT ME

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When tomorrow starts without me
And I’m not there to see
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
all filled with tears for me
I wish so much you wouldn’t cry
the way you did today
While thinking of the many things
we didn’t get to say…
I know how much you love me,
as much as I love you
And each time that I think of you
I know you miss me too…
But when tomorrow starts without me
I hope you somehow knew
For all my life, I’d never thought
this love would see us through…
Our two souls met, without regret
We rushed with endless joy
Ignoring every social norm
like little carefree girl & boy
So much to laugh and live for
So many yet to do…
But it seemd almost impossible
because, you know, it’s you!
I thank God for our trying days
the good ones and the bad
I thank you for all the things we shared,
and all the fun we had
I thank you for your little ways
of expressing “I love you”
And I hope that through this poem
you’d feel how much I do…
If I could have a chance today
just even for awhile…
I’d say I love you and I’d kiss you,
and simply watch you smile
And when tomorrow starts without me
Don’t think we’re far apart
For every time you think of me
I’m right here in your heart.
01
Mar
08

Blame it to the Hormones

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Went to bed knowing that I would feel better in the morning. Laid my exhausted head on the pillow and tried to condition myself… But was just not up to it… then I said, maybe in the morning.
Woke up in the morning… with that same ol’ feeling of sadness.
Dragged myself out of bed, completely forgetting about conditioning. Wondered why I kept feeling unhappy
Each day is just the same routine… putting on a brave front for the world and pretending to be the same ol’ Jennie.
Bidding all “hello” and “great day” but when everyone finally clears out, there I go wonderin’ how I’ll make it through the day. There’s nothing to be happy about. I’m tired, that’s all. Tired of life… and then I cry some more.
After all, they say, it’s an all too common scenario in this almost always deranged life of mine.
And then I ask, how can I possibly use that magical law of attraction to my advantage feeling like this?
The Law of Attraction takes work says my best friend Joiz… Great work on your inner self. It can appear that it is just easier to accept the life you are living rather than change you, but the change is worth it.
But how do I start when I feel so bad?
For months now it’s been running through my head over and over again. Maybe it’s a chorus of I’m always tired. I want my life to change but I don’t know how to start.
Very soon they say I will have to leave the space I am comfortably hangin’ in… that is, if I want to.
I don’t expect an answer too soon. But when it finally comes, I hope it would be as evident as this negativism that seem to have been embracing me for some time now.
A sane thing to do in the mean time is trust that the universe will bring me the desire to be happy in my life. Then each day will get better and hopefully better…


01
Mar
08

Mushy Lines

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Like in the movies, when put into a heartbreaking, tear-jerking scenario with someone, I wish I could just gracefully step forward, face-away, stare right beyond the horizons, breathe deeply, and then deliver a grammy-award winning punch line that would mark the mind of that someone in the hope of addressing whatever issue there is.
Movie buffs and hopeless romantics perhaps would conform with these top most romantic and unforgettable Hollywood flick lines on my list. Here ya go:

Jack: “I don’t know about you, but I intend on writing a strongly worded letter to the White Star Line about all of this. You’re gonna go on, and make lots of babies, and watch them grow. You’re gonna die an old lady, warm in her bed. Not here, not this night. Do you understand me? Winning that ticket, Rose, was the best thing that ever happened to me… it brought me to you. And I’m thankful for that, Rose. I’m thankful. You must do me this honor, Rose. Promise me you’ll survive. That you won’t give up, no matter what happens, no matter how hopeless. Promise me now, Rose, and never let go of that promise.” Rose: “I promise.” -Titanic

Jerry: “I love you… you complete me.” Dorothy: “Shut up. Just shut up. You had me at hello.” -Jerry Maguire

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I hope to give to you forever. I love you. I’ll be seeing you. Noah.” -The Notebook

“If you love someone you say it… you say it right then, out loud, or the moment just…passes you by.” -My Best Friend’s Wedding

“I don’t want to need you, cause I can’t have you.” –The Bridges of Madison County

Jack Dawson: “No, let me try and get this out. You’re ama- I’m not an idiot, I know how the world works. I’ve got ten bucks in my pocket, I have no-nothing to offer you and I know that. I understand. But I’m too involved now. You jump, I jump remember? I can’t turn away without knowing you’ll be all right… That’s all I want… They’ve got you trapped, Rose. And you’re gonna die if you don’t break free. Maybe not right away because you’re strong but… sooner or later that fire that I love about you, Rose… that fire’s gonna burn out…” -Titanic

I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle in your nose when you’re looking at me like I’m nuts. I love that after I spend a day with you, I can still smell you perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. It’s not because I’m lonely, and it’s not because it’s New Year’s Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” –When Harry Met Sally

“I guarantee that we’ll have tough times. And I guarantee that at some point one or both of us will want to get out of this thing. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine I’ll regret it for the rest of my life. Because I know in my heart you’re the only one for me.” –Runaway Bride

William: “I live in Notting Hill. You live in Beverly Hills. Everyone in the world knows who you are.” Anna: “I’m also just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.” –Notting Hill

“Well that’s what we do, we fight… You tell me when I am being an arrogant son of a bitch and I tell you when you are a pain in the ass. Which you are, 99% of the time. I’m not afraid to hurt your feelings. You have like a 2 second rebound rate, then you’re back doing the next pain-in-the-ass thing… So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me… everyday.” -The Notebook